Articles needing additional references from July All articles needing additional references All articles with unsourced statements Articles with unsourced statements from July Articles with unsourced statements from April All sex — bottoming, topping, sucking, handjobs — involves risk. My first sexual experience happened in a hotel room while other guys in my church youth group slept. Do I like telling my partner what to do, or do I like being told what to do? Archived from the original on Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, Bd. Yes they can.
Why do I feel ashamed of bottoming?
The term side has been proposed by Huffington Post contributor Joe Kort  for gay men who are not interested in anal sex. Namespaces Article Talk. So how do you go about testing new waters? Anal sex has just as much risk as vaginal sex for unwanted sexually transmitted infections like chlamydia and gonorrhea, and since HIV is more common among certain populations transgender women of color and men who have sex with menanal sex poses a higher risk of HIV transmission for these people.
In my experience, most people are versatile in the right situation, or with the right person — I am.