Having two parents who love you is a lot more than some kids even have. Black Voices. And society started to change. There are hundreds of stories about parents who not only disapproved of gay marriage but also refuse to talk to their children when they learn that their gay children are planning to have children of their own. Stand up for yourself. Tim put his career on hold to raise me in a time when men didn't do that. Many heterosexual parents have expressed difficulty talking to their children about sex.
In fact, they are probably trying hard to understand and make life easier for you already. Studies have repeatedly shown that the children of same-sex couples do just as well in life as the children of straight couples, so you have the same potential for success as others with straight parents do. The hard part about being a gay parent was the rejection.
The next day, I went to the hospital to visit the first of my closest friends in New York to have a kid.