Do you find that the idea of a naked person of the same gender gets you excited, not the abstract sense "Oh, they're pretty. You can find out more at Stonewall: Current user wait time average. Anonymous March 12th, Anonymous November 17th, It's important not to let outside pressure exclusively determine your sexual identity. Sexuality is defined by who you are sexually attracted to, not your actions.
Some people know that they're gay from a very early age; others take time to discover their true nature, perhaps even realizing it only in later life.
If you are gay, know that there are many, many gay, lesbian, bisexual, and straight people all over the world who have been in your situation. How can I know if I'm straight or gay? They've all been through it. If you are strictly only considering those three sexualities, then it here is what they strictly are:
Your sexual orientation is unique, and only you can decide who you are.